I've been wondering where you were today. What movie did you see with D3? How cute that you made it a surprise. D6 loves them, although she begs to be told the surprise the entire way there.
Your H. Sigh. The blatant rude comments, the overall 'annoyance' with the house and everyone in it. I've been there, and yes, its hard to not comment when they are stomping around like big babies. You do still love your H, but he is pushing you away right now, so that's hard. You find yourself detaching a bit, and that's ok. Try to ignore the comments (soo hard!) and don't worry about where he goes (soo hard!) and just live you life for yourself and D3.
Are you going to try to talk with him again in the future?