Hi, We don't have kids. I feel like it's conflicting. I know that if we had kids, there would be reason that we would have to see each other all the time. On the other hand, I know that when he does want to see me, I know that it's b/c he wants to see me, not kids. Anyway, does anyone have advice about being available to them whenever they call? Again, the debate is that if I am not that available to him, he will miss me. On the other hand, I know that his issues are beyond the marriage and I would love to know that he will want to come to me versus anyone else to consider some of his thoughts that he is experiencing in therapy. Advice?......