Kimmie Lee if you don't mind me saying so, I think you are making a mistake to label your husband MLC.
Clearly SD17 was a thorn in your side. CLEARLY to everyone she was a thorn in your side. I think it's her you ought to be DBing first, and your husband secondly.
I have read all your posts and I don't see any remorse except for the fact that you don't have what you want. Perhaps I am mistaken but you might ought to put less emphasis on your stepdaughter being the cause of your marital situation and instead, start looking closer in the mirror.
As for your counselor, my opinion of him is that he sucks. There is no need to pull the plug on your marriage right now. I actually felt a lot of hope for your relationship with your husband as I read of your interactions with him. I do however think the source of your problems is a little closer to home than you are willing to consider right now.
Good luck to you.
Hope I didn't chap your ass too much.
AmyC
I am confused. First you say I should be DBing my step-D first, then you say to put less emphasis on step-D. wtf???
