The reason I think H is having a MLC is because he told our C that he "wanted a new adventure in his life", is "enjoying his new-found independence" "our marriage is stale" and such. If I am wrong, I'm sorry. I guess I am misunderstanding what MLC's say when they leave.
I have absolutely no contact with D17, so how would I DB? This kid hates me and is happy that H has left me and that it is just the two of them. She has blamed me for everything even though I did a lot of nice things for her. This is an impossible situation for me because she is a manipulative liar and has her dad wrapped around her finger now. He's more of a friend to her than a father right now because he is scared that she'll run away again. She turns 18 in two months anyway.
And yes, you read it right, my C told me to file for D because my sitch is a no-win for me, how would I ever trust again if H came back, etc....