Guys and Gals

I think I need to contact him about d6. Am I just wanting the contact or do I really need to contact him.

How should I contact him. By phone, email, text? Try and find him in person?

Consider that I told him last weekend (not the one just gone, the w/e before this one) that I wanted a divorce and he's only contacted me once (and been really sh!tty because I had gotten mixed up about a day that he ordinarily sees d6 but instead was working).

Things I think I need to tell/ask him...

I have a late water polo game on Wed and I think it will be too late a night to take d6 with me. I'm torn between seeing if h wants to spend time with d6 and give him first 'dibs' on looking after her before I book a babysitter.

I have annual leave from Wednesday this week through to the following Friday. this will not affect him except for next Tues and Thurs when he picks her up.

Weekend of 26th/27th Jan is a long weekend (Australia Day) and he has d6 that weekend. I want to know if he will be having her on the Sunday night as well as Sat night.

I want to ask him to go to mediation again to at least work out a parenting plan but preferably start some communication about property settlement.

I want to ask him to paying half of d6's child care fees going forward.

hmm....I'm sure there's more but that's the most important things I can think of.

How should I approach these topics? Altogether?


CMC

Me: 34
Him: 36
M: 10yrs
T: 17yrs
D: 6yo
S: 29/01/2007
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