Separated and unsure how to proceed

[grid, lost]

[quote=Kimmie Lee]OK, I really need some help. My C, whom I have seen since my first M and D(20 yrs ago), is telling me to just get a D again. I am so upset and my gut is telling me to discontinue my sessions.

KL,
Have you read Michele's article on finding the correct MC ??? Very good info there. If you have the DR book she writes alot about MC there as well. As I understand Michele, you must have a MC who is pro-marriage, not helpful with a C who's goal is to improve the marriage vs. save the marriage.!!

BTW, a C I was talking with recommended the following book. You might want to pick a copy up at book store or borrow from public library. Title: "How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together" Author :Susan Page
the C who recommended it to me, also was well aware of Michele's books and work. He was very impressed with Michele's books.
Now the book listed above is quite good, except it is not a book you can just read. Author has exercises you should do and will need pad and pen to track info., etc. Take the time to do paper work and I truly believe you'll get quite a bit out of the book. I know I did.
Hope this helps KL. Oh one other little note I'd like to add, from everything i have learned about C and ref. to mental health, etc. Someone's C does not tell their client what they should do, they help them see their options and the consequess (sp) of their choices.
good luck and never give up. Many have worked through S**t deeper than ours and there is always hope, tomorrow and GAL.
grid, lost