Originally Posted By: sideswiped
My h came to see his d today and his ring was back on his finger. He was in a strange mood. He then offered to swop cars so I could use the better car to drive d around in. that is a really nice thing to do! But at the end of each visit he manages to push my buttons and raises my defenses. He then says...why do you always have to do this! I think that is his way of making sure when he leaves he justifies why he left in the first place. He replied to a text later in the day and said have a nice day. He is totally screwing with my mind!

Help, any advice.


I think he's afraid of things feeling good with you. He's going through some serious internal struggles right now. He's having good moments with you, but then tries to sabotage them to justify his actions. Typical. Stupid, but typical. You just keep working your DB skills and he'll sabotage less and less.

Regards,

ntl


Me: 30
H: 32
Dating 10/96
Married 8/01
H PA's: Summer 97, 12/06, 5/07-10/23/07
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