Long and Bumpy Road #3

[JennyF]

A friend told me awhile ago....this is who H is and always has been and always will be. He has not changed and never will.

Be careful with this. I have people right now trying to convince me that H "had us all fooled". I say that's BS. I know who I married! You don't spend 9 years with someone and not know who they are. The last year may have been questionable, but I'm not going to let anyone tell me that the last decade of my life has been a lie.

I choose the believe this is who he is NOW. Whether he is this person for good remains to be seen. But I KNOW it wasn't always him and no one can tell me different. It too easy for outsiders to sit there and make these blanket statements.

I still hold out hope that his fate isn't to be this person forever. God has a plan for him and I pray that this is part of his journey to being a BETTER person.
Having said that, this is my journey too...I don't get to choose these circumstances but I do get to choose how I deal with them and how I let them effect me.

You're a good person SO2...don't let the circumstances get the better of you and turn you into someone you're not. Leave that to our H's.
J~