Thanks for taking time out to catch up on my sitch.
It's funny but my W never actually asked for a D, what she did was to take me to our favorite restaurant, give me a lovely ILYBNILWY speech, then expected to go off in pursuit of happiness (Ironically the title of the movie we watched last night) while I waited around.
It now seems that whatever or whoever she was looking for isn't out there so she feels she's stuck with me. As you said it gives me plenty of time to do whatever DB'ing I gotta do to show her that I am the best alternative. I think it's working to some extent cos I'm still around and her anger is subsiding.
It almost feels like we're piecing but she's not exactly saying that's what we're doing. She's just told me now that she's enjoyed staying around the house this weekend and just chilling in her scruffs. She wishes could do the same next week, but unfortunately she will need to leave the house at some stage.
So I'm taking it slowly, keeping my expectations low, and hopefully I won't scare her off.
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing