Originally Posted By: Where2gofromhere
Hi Lizzy,

How did D do in the skating competition?

It's tough to witness when WAS doesn't go out of the way to show extra affection to the children.. mine had really pulled away from our D2 for a couple of months.. Although I guess now that he's moved out when he sees her he's making more of an effort.


This was a competition for a synchro team that D is on and they placed 6 out of 8. They skated great though and were in a tough grouping. The 1st and 2nd place teams from two groupings at the last comp. were all in her grouping. Her team is also new to this division and younger than most.

I think H still has no clue how much this is having an effect on the Ds. They never talk to him about it at all and if I mention anything to him he acts like I'm being a B. I have told Ds many times they need to talk to him about this, that and the other thing but they won't. My C says I'm telling them the right thing and if we were in family C that is what would happen.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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