Put the burden of a D on him. If he wants one bad enough he will do it. If not, then he really doesn't want one does he?
Mine did finally see a lawyer and filed. Things came to a screeching halt when she realized I wasn't going to give her everything she wanted without a fight. We're in a holding pattern now.
Actions speak louder than words.
If he really wants a divorce he'll get one.
If you really don't want a divorce you won't make it easy.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13