You are smart not to pursue D for him.

Put the burden of a D on him. If he wants one bad enough he will do it. If not, then he really doesn't want one does he?

Mine did finally see a lawyer and filed. Things came to a screeching halt when she realized I wasn't going to give her everything she wanted without a fight. We're in a holding pattern now.

Actions speak louder than words.

If he really wants a divorce he'll get one.

If you really don't want a divorce you won't make it easy.


"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13