Nice baby steps there last night. Please just keep your expectations low and go slow at it...as you said, if the expectations are nil it's easy for her to meet them, thus you won't get disappointed and frustrated and it'll be easier to just have a good time and show the good you.
It seems fortunate that your W feels "stuck" with you for now. If she's not rushing to D that means you've got time to do what you've gotta do. As I'm sure you know from reading around here, ILYBNILWY can turn back to ILY with time and consistent DBing.
Me: 43 W: 41 Together 2009, Married 2011 Sons 10 and 6, Daughter 5 Bomb 2/21/21. W moved out 10/2021
