Sounds like she wants to cake eat in D. Wants one, but doesn't want it to hurt, so she feels you out on what you would accept.
I may be projecting my sitch onto yours. My W only wanted the house and ALL furnishings, the business and child support. She graciously offered to let me have half of the debt. Oh I almost forgot, she'd also let me have the 10 year old car while she would take the 5 year old car. How generous.
She filed, thinking we could both use HER attorney. When I retained my own, she freaked as she must have realized she wasn't going to have everything her way.
Now I'm playing a waiting game, hoping she will progress out of mlc and come to her senses before we both experience total destruction. Being a baby boomer, I grew up with the MAD philosophy of confrontation (Mutually Assured Destruction). As I recall it worked against the Soviet Union, hope it will work against the alien wife. Her lawyer charges $3 for every $1 mine charges. There's another similarity. As I recall the Soviet economy couldn't sustain the confrontation. I wonder if W's can?
"Extremism in defense of democracy (marriage) is no vice" Senator Barry Goldwater
D*mn, I'm getting old.
Do you have a "game plan"?
Last edited by sleeper; 01/13/0804:40 PM.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.
