I have a friend at work (he is 45) whose W had an A last year. They went to Retro, counseling, and are working on fixing things. One of his 'boundaries' was that she wasn't to travel alone until he was ready to trust her. Next week, she is going on a work trip and she invited her H. He suggested they sell the diamond earrings OM got her (packed away in the basement) to pay for his trip.
