husband thought what I thought...maybe you could join her. I would say you are going to have to 'let' her go, and just voice your concern. Glad she is making the change in jobs though, that shows she is moving on.

You are so right about the intimacy. I think many WAW's stay far away from their husbands, the men willing to forgive and love them no matter what. Your W would not be with you if she didn't want to...