Originally Posted By: bhopeful
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I must have totally missed that... She seems pretty firm in her admission that things are not 'going back'.


I was going by three things that you put in your post:
1. She loves you.
2. She cares about you.
3. She wants nothing more than to be a family again.

At the same time she also wants space from it all. She can't reconcile in her head whatever issues she's having that are keeping her from those three things.

That's what I see when I read about your situation. I think that you have hope but she needs time to heal.

Peace,
B


I agree w/ B that your W hasn't given up completely. I think she keeps saying it is over because the WAS has such a hard time swallowing their pride and admiting that they may have been wrong. My H hasn't said any of the positives that your W has, but he seems to show a lot of signs that he still has strong feelings. Like your W he has made not move towards legal action. That is still giving me hope and I still see hope for you although W is in a very dark place now.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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