Limbo,
Sounds all very positive. The way the two of you are talking about your needs and inner demons will bring you close.

As for your thoughts and fears (i.e. what's to stop it from happening again...), I think we all feel that way. I know i do. But we need to find a healthy way of telling ourselves that we can only control ourselves. We are accountable for OUR role in our M, not our spouse's. This takes work, but you can do it.

Your communication with your H sounds great. Keep it going. Remember, M is hard work - every day.


Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track