CL,
Love the title of your thread. My H is a conflict coward.

You sound great. You are focusing on you and the positives. Way to go.

Your W's recent revelation must have hurt you. But at the same time, please see this as a step forward. She shared something very personal with you. She is opening up to you. You are her rock. Remember that.

Meantime, continue to focus on your own stability. The dance thing sounds great and clearly it is sometihng that makes you happy.

You are a great man and a great H. It is clear to me when I read your posts. Just remember to tell yourself that every day.


Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track