It might have SallyM, it really might have. What if's are hard to think about though. Sigh....its like those people they have to 'snatch' from those weird brainwashing communes...
Your H has not forgotten all about it. Tucked it away perhaps, but he hasn't forgotten.......
Personally, if you think you can go with it and have NO EXPECTATIONS other than to enjoy the kids, you might find this a great opportunity. Your family unit together with your children will having an amazing time - what a way to remember what it's all about!!!! This is maybe your H's way of starting to say sorry and trying to regain some normality.
I guess, if it were me I would kind of try out the sex side of things again when you were there if you felt like it. You need to start reconnecting at some levels.
I know you want to protect yourself after all the blows you have received but at some point, if you truly want to heal your M, you are going to have to take a leap of faith.
(((((((((hugs))))))) to you. You deserve your H to wake up and come back to you. Maybe he is starting to see what we have all known all along - lwb is a one off and he would be a moron to lose you!!!!
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
hope you have a great weekend...am thinking about you!
I think saffie made some good points (although she needs to explain to me what a "one off" is. I can take from context that it means something good, but 'splain please).
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
Oh Confusion.. it really stinks.. but Personally I think this is a good sign. Enjoy yourself and really think about what Saffie said, she's right. This may be a golden opportunity for you to re-connect with no expectations.. although I know that part will be hard.
You are a beautiful person and would be a moron not to connect with you!
Have a good day.
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
H and I ML last night. It was very nice. Felt very...connecting...to me at least. I knew saffie and Sara would be oh so proud of me.
Went to a really fun work party tonight. H is out, of course. Last night he came home super early and said he was bored while he was out. We talked and talked (light stuff) and one thing lead to another.....
LWB, I'm sitting here smiling for you, too. My first thought was to say congratulations but that just doesn't seem right!
If one thing led to another, then it must have been something he wanted, too. That, and the supposed plans for the family trip to Fl sound positive to me! I hope and pray that many more good things keep coming your way. You so deserve it!
As Martha Stewart says, "It's a good thing." 