As Olive's friends we should be supportive of her, whatever she chooses to do. So I will not judge her if she chooses not to date, and I hope you will not judge her if she chooses to date. It is Olive's life, and she needs to do what she feels is the best thing for her. The choice she would like to make has been taken away from her. She is left to choose only from lifestyles she never wanted. but she must find her way, and she will.