Guys, Thanks for the pick me up. I left shortly after my last post. Spent the day with my single buddy watching sports all day and.......talking about my sitch a little. His take as expected get the hell out of there. Anyhow, i was getting ready to pickup D7 earlier today and called the MIL to tell her I would bring her over. MIL said she would pick her up at my mom's. Well something told me she is trying to hide something so I decided to drop by her apartment building. Well low and behold my wife's truck was parked there. Now if i combine this with all the other circumstatial evidence (passport, her phone rings funny etc.) well....I know you are not supposed to spy but I could not help it. It will be interesting to see if MIL again sets up a meeting for a pickup of D7 away from her house. More interesting will be the conversation when my wife returns. I know i am supposed to love unconditionally but if she says she drove herself to her destination it will be OVER, no questions asked. Someone else said this but you do not leave a relationship or a job with nothing else to fall back on. I will keep you posted....On the positive side, you have to be prtty warped to be cheating on your husband and send him a text message that you miss him. If that is the case, she has bigger problems than an MLC. Hopefully I'll get some sleep tonight and be rested tommorow.