FOund your thread! Happy New Year! For what it is worth, I do can not see being cordial to OW. I am of the mindset, that if that is what H has chosen to do, that you let the kids know that it is his decision, that you will respect their relationship with OW, but that you can not condone it. Not sure if that is the right advise, but that is the stance that I took.
For me, my kids figured it out quick. I also told them that,although they did not have to like OW, she was an adult and they ahd to be respectful........ WELL, she was so much like a child around them, they just shut down and refused to be with their dad if she was around.......
Anyway, I coould write a book......but I won't!!
I'm just checking in my friend! Happy 2008!! Wow, what a long strange trip it's been......
I'm great, kids are great, and (s00n) when I get some "real" free time, I promise to post about my LONG journey since 9/11/2001.......... It feels like dog years!
Continue to be strong- God Bless- Kel
PS- Where the heck is Mea....I miss her so much!! AKA mea-nie.....
