Sara I have to respectfully disagree with you. LO is married. Her husband is committing adultery. If she starts dating someone else, she is "one of them" then.
Dating someone to make her H jealous is wrong as well. She shouldn't be going out with someone else to draw her H back. She may not feel any differant after the D is final, but wrong is wrong. Marriage is a covenant and just because her H is breaking it, doesn't void the 7th Commandment for her. Her intention may not be to commit adultery, but the possibility is there.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
