Allow me to just take that dumbass statement right back so you don't strain your brain over it, Frank_D.
I mis-spoke. FOR REAL. There is an AREA in which she has "grown" - and I use the term loosely. It is that she stood there talking to you in the kitchen yesterday and told you how she felt. She expressed herself. Anger, sadness, hopelessness, in THAT area - self-expression to YOU about HER feelings - she has matured A LITTLE. To say she has outgrown you was way over the mark so forget I said it. I stand by everything else I said.