Confusion of a WAW (Thread 5)

[JennyF]

W was really nice to me, but she was very confusing - Said that she and I were never going to get back again together, but that she still cares about me and loves me. She also said that she wants nothing more than to be a family again, but that she can't do it anymore.

I'll say this is confusing! I remember my H at the beginning showing signs of wavering like this. The more I recognized it (and let him know I recognized it) the more he had to jam it down my throat that it was OVER. I wish I knew then what I know now!
I think that since she's letting you move in with her, she REALLY just wants to make sure that you don't think it means anything. No expectations of her. She's just protecting herself...probably from her own feelings.
I agree with everything B said. In fact it would probably be a good idea for you to try not to be there as often as you can. That way she still feels like she has her space. I don't think you've dug yourself a hole, but your at the start of 'something' so you can totally choose how it goes at this point.

You're going to need tough skin for this Brit! Who would have thought you'd be crying on your way to move back IN with her. I feel for you and I hope that things go as smooth as they possibly can.

Do your best to keep things on a friendly level. I would minimize the hugs & ILY's and anything like that unless initiated by her. And even then I'd proceed cautiously.
Good luck!!
So did you take the place that was 'perfect' or are you still looking?
J~