Confusion of a WAW (Thread 5)

[bhopeful]

You need to enroll in some acting classes because this is going to have to be quite a performance of acting "As If". You're going to have to ignore her attitude and keep a PMA going the whole time you're around her. If it gets to be to much, get yourself away from her even if it's just a walk around the block. You're going to have to carry the load during this time. Don't expect anything from your W.

Her dour attitude isn't because of you. Recognize that and things might be a little easier. It is very positive that she still loves you are cares about you. It seems like she just can't deal with much of anything these days. You need to take any pressure that she might be feeling from you away. Make sure that things are easy breezy relaxed when she's with you.

It sounds like she wants to make things work with you but she just doesn't know how right now. She feels hopeless. Time will help with that.

Peace,
B