H and I own business together, still talking

[grid, lost]

Found out that mt mom had a heart attack Thursday night, my brother called me 9PM Friday to let me know. While talking to him my aunt called me(moms sister). We are really close, she's more like an older sister to me.

Oh Mike, I am so sorry to see you posting your Mom is ill. Please when you have a chance post and let me know how your Mom is doing. Will keep her in my thoughts and prayers.

I told her his name and she confirmed it was a co-worker. W told her that I wouldn't fight for her. My aunt said she didn't want to see that side of me,

HMMMM.... So W is having at least EA. OUCH that hurts. Maybe with W's self impossed isolation she just finds OM a lift for her low self esteem. Remember the problems are not about OM. AS you told me over and over, get OW out of your head. Your turn. lol I am just teasing you, at least now you know some of the facts.

She told me that she has a few friends and customers(she owns a beauty salon) that think I'm hot. I go there for haircuts.

Some how I am not surprised by this statement!!

OM is a co-worker, don't know if she is chasing him. I think the times she wanted to quit her job they had a falling out. Don't know if W thinks if she is D'd that he will leave his W for her or if he promised to leave his W if she D'd me. Oh well it is what it is.

How can your W be chasing him if all she does is sleep when not at work????? Sounds more like an EA than anything else. This idea of, you D your S and I'll D mine never works out. One or the other always ends up not going through with the D. Then the other has lost all!!! Hope your W is together enough to realize that!