I had no expectations to change anything. But if I broke down I would expect him to help me. And yes I did vocalize the scratch my back. I forget what it was for. Just letting him know that if he treats me like crap he will get the same in return. I see nothing wrong with that personally. I wouldn't help him if he was a jerk to me. He wouldn't deserve my help. I respect those who respect me.


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08