I don't feel like I have the energy for this anymore. H was carrying on in counselling about his sadness as our d's birthday approaches!!!! never gave me much of a chance for anything. He seems to use c for himself while I stand there like a driveby victim. When I eventually got my turn asked him for truth about his R with OW. I was told we will deal with it in next session. Two days later he comes to see d and he is not wearing his wedding ring! I ask why and he gives some excuse about rash on his hand. Why can my h not just give me the truth.
