SO2...I'm glad my post helped. Try not to think negatively about all those feelings. I know it's hard, but if you beat yourself up about it then it's just one more thing on your mind.
Peace...You've been a real inspiration to me when it comes to letting go. I know it's been a rough year for you and it took a while for you to get there, but it's been really helpful for me to read about your sitch and how well you're handling things now. Here's hoping it has the impact we're all hoping for!
Lizzy...I'm still having trouble getting my nerve up to stand my ground with regards to the kids. My appmt with my lawyer helped a bit on this.
More on that later...baby is crying!! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out