I asked when you were going to see this "hippo" as you described him and you never answered me. So there. \:\/
I'm flying out to visit him for a weekend in a few weeks.
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And if you haven't seen him in person yet, why are you taking it to this level (talking for hours, making future plans, blah blah). You yourself said you made that mistake before with some of these guys and when you saw them in person there was NO sexual chemistry.
Well, "I" am not the one taking it to this level. I'm just along for the ride. I said that our relationship was semi-exclusive because he keeps signaling that he wants to be exclusive but I haven't agreed. Also, I have been careful to not get too sexually flirtatious with him yet because that was the mistake I made with the guy who ended up looking like Shrek. We have agreed that if there is no sexual chemistry we'll just have a friendly dinner together and I will exchange my ticket for a late night flight back. He cracks me up though because he is absolutely confident that I will find him attractive in person as in "You saw my pictures and I smell good too." His sexual ideal is Anna Nicole Smith just before she got really fat so I'm fairly confident he'll be attracted to me if I wear my Ipex and he squints a little bit to blur out the wrinkles.
I do still have other suitors popping in and out but none of them are as attractive/determined as FSG so I guess I'm operating under the rule of "you snooze you lose".
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
