More great info. from everyone. Thank you all. Yes I do believe it is hard for my FIL and MIL to come to me, they feel probably as if they are stuck in the middle with the desire to help but realize this is OUR issue that WE need to fix. I know they also don't want to betray their son so I get all that. I just have to get over the feeling like they are punishing me because I know they really aren't.

Oh how I just want my husband home again. This road will be an unbelievably hard one to travel but the end result of getting him back(if that happens)will be so worth it.


Both 35
T 19/M 15 years
S8/D5
It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07

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