Good for you for getting that job. I know that it will take time away from your daughter, but it will be good for you. I'm a working mom, so I understand. It's tough, but I try to make the most of the time I do have with her, which is a lot more lately since H isn't around much. And you are right, as time goes by, you'll get back on track. It's very tough not to focus on what our H's are doing and to redirect that focus somewhere that's it's needed.
Karen, you hit it on the head. My H seems to be so focused on OW these days too that he's hurting D3 and I feel like the only one looking out for her too.
Have a great day ladies!! You are wonderful women and you, like the rest of us, deserve better.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day