question about text messaging

[phbear316]

Northsin

Thanks for the post. I know snooping is not good, and when i found out about affair, it consumed me 100%. now months later i do it about 10%. I don't snoop so much as keep my guard up looking for things. Last time the bill from the hotel was sticking out of the top of the bag. I was like hiding easter eggs for kids right in on the living room floor. H does not hide things now.

I just wanted the information, just for me. I know it sounds crazy, but it was something i had to have to show h i am not as stupid as you think i am. It was consuming me and almost gave me a heart attack too. You hit the nail right on the head, they are going to do what they want when they want.

I went thru the same stage of not being civil to him, i still do sometimes, like when h calls me in the afternoon and says i am going out, i say ok do what you need to do, then i come home to find a note saying don't wait up for me i wont be home, please understand. As you Fu*&k someone else, no i don't understand. was a text i sent to him.

I to am trying to work on GAL, its going slowly.

Well thanks for your help and advice, i really appreciate it.

phbear