I'm sorry to read these updates. However, you seem to be accepting of them and ready to move on from it. (I admit, I admire you for being so strong right off the bat). Yes, money always seems to be the boiling point in D's and separations. But you have to look at it as a business transaction, even though your feelings are overwhelmingly tied up in knots around it. I know those thoughts you have at night; I had them too; still do sometimes. It does get better with time. You can easily have another R in your life when you are ready. God must have something better in store for you, so keep praying and following along; it will all be ok. I am truly sorry he moved out again but not surprised. And one more thing...he filed awfully fast. Be prepared that he will hesitate with the D because he will start to second guess himself a great deal. Focus on what you want now and don't let him and his crazy MLC sway you.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
