Reading your posts reminded me how lucky our kids are to have us. I think that is so true! It seems like from reading the posts here, and certainly in my marriage this past few months, that so many of our spouses have become "aliens" in a way. My H is just focused on the OW at this point and is making so many decisions that are hurting our kids and will hurt them in the future, and I am the only one looking out for them, and I think many of us here are like that too, and we don't give ourselves enough, sometimes maybe any, credit for that. Ellis, good luck on your job, I may be in the same position if we are divorced as well, working after 7 years also, so I will be interested to hear how it goes!!! Karen
