Enjoy the birthday. Stay clear of the ISDs, "Improvised Spouse Devices": well concealed, you never know when and where one might detonate! I know you mentioned being a social worker, but it really is more difficult to do the "physician heal thyself" gig. What do you suppose makes them go into the Rotweiller attack mode and be so unreasonably aggressive toward us all the time over the AC or the vacuum? Was you W IMPOSSIBLE to resolve issues with? Sounds it. The anxiety always skyrockets!