Let me ask a question. On Thursday night I had to work - a home business show. It was with my neighbor. My kids were supposed to help after they ate with my H. My son showed up late to tell me my H's truck had broken down not far from the house and I was needed to steer as they pushed, which I did. Then I went back to the show. The tow truck came and took it away for svs. He stayed over Thursday night so I could take him to work Fri. The kids and I picked him up as well. Then he and S11 had their monthly hobby show so I let him take the car. He works Saturdays so he took my car home so he could go to work today. Apparently his fuel pump went so the bill is going to be high - $800 approx. Not sure if he even has it! But he hasn't asked me so I guess it will be his whole life savings. Anyway, some people are criticizing me for helping him at all. (I'm not that cruel!) He has been very gratful and keeps thanking me. I look at it as I may need him in the same situation one day. And I may need to use the truck for various things in the future. I have told him before you scratch my back and I will scratch yours. What do you think?


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08