I asked when you were going to see this "hippo" as you described him and you never answered me. So there.
And if you haven't seen him in person yet, why are you taking it to this level (talking for hours, making future plans, blah blah). You yourself said you made that mistake before with some of these guys and when you saw them in person there was NO sexual chemistry.
Little sister LFL is just shaking her head waiting to say "I told you so big sis." Not that I would say that but....you did say you need a little babysitting here. Be careful, not just physically but emotionally. k?