I think it's safe to say she's mad about a number of things. 1) With my attorney's advice we put a monetary payment on the request to waive two clauses, 2) I think she's mad that I'm not getting mad, my attitude and how I am acting is kind, considerate, optimistic, etc. I'm approaching everything with love, compassion and optimism. But I'm looking out for me. and 3) I suspect she views #2 as me moving on emotionally and she doesn't like it. She's the one harboring all the anger not me. So she can't accuse me of harboring anger anymore. That excuse won't work. Plus I flat out called her out on it when we talked the other morning. I am worried she's harboring a lot of fear and negative feelings as any good friend would do. I told her I can't solve it for her, only she can solve it. But if she would like my assistance then I will be glad to help. She acknowledged I pretty much hit the nail on the head with this analysis and therein lies point 4, she knows I'm right. BTW, she usually gets angry similar to this when she knows I'm right. For a long time it was a standing joke with us. Sadly neither of us are laughing right now.
Last edited by catfan; 01/12/0812:58 PM.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
