Hey FA - as you know (got your messages) I have a 6yrd old D also and H has snuck her to meet OW twice - what are they thinking? Thats so damaging to the kids and confusing!! Do they ever think of anybody but themselves and their own needs when they are in the fantasy land of an A. What a difficult sit to have him show interest but still hanging onto OW - I like theodens advice. It does seem like your H wants to have his cake and eat it too with you and the OW. Maybe hes on the fence and just needs a "push" or a bulldozer in the right direction. Hang in there.
