I will be ordering the conway books. I really do think my H is in a MLC also. He is 47 and prior to the "bomb" he laid on me showed all the signs now that I think about it. He even talked about wearing an earing again - Ha! He focused on his weight and was weighing himself several times a day and started talking about how everyone has an"aura" around them good or bad. He has never talked like that in the 20 years I knew him. But I wonder which came first the MLC or if all of this was a product of the OW's attention?