Personally, if you think you can go with it and have NO EXPECTATIONS other than to enjoy the kids, you might find this a great opportunity. Your family unit together with your children will having an amazing time - what a way to remember what it's all about!!!! This is maybe your H's way of starting to say sorry and trying to regain some normality.
I guess, if it were me I would kind of try out the sex side of things again when you were there if you felt like it. You need to start reconnecting at some levels.
I know you want to protect yourself after all the blows you have received but at some point, if you truly want to heal your M, you are going to have to take a leap of faith.
(((((((((hugs))))))) to you. You deserve your H to wake up and come back to you. Maybe he is starting to see what we have all known all along - lwb is a one off and he would be a moron to lose you!!!!
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
