W has filed for the D,where to from here

[HHIF]

I know how you are feeling,my wife of 24 years filed for D and I am sure she is going through MLC.
She is taking pills for depression,and anxity and another so she can sleep.
Our S12 is having a very hard time with it,we are both christians and she knows what the bible says about divorce,but still insist she is going through with it.

She says there is not another man in the picture and I tend to believe that.
The attorneys fees are starting to mount up,between what we spent on attorneys and the condo I am in it's already been close to $15,000 that we don't have to spend,so now she wants to talk to me about mediation.
I do not want a D and do not want to do anything to make it easier or faster,we may go bankrupt,but she is the one that has done all of this,and I keep hoping she is going to wake up one of these days and realize how wrong she is for doing this.

It very hard to understand because we are very friendly,she invites to the house for dinner and we get along great as friends,she just keeps saying we have grown apart and ILYBNILWY and we just need to move own with our indivual lives.
What? Who is this person that has taking over my loving wife's body?