Found out that mt mom had a heart attack Thursday night, my brother called me 9PM Friday to let me know. While talking to him my aunt called me(moms sister). We are really close, she's more like an older sister to me. She's only 6 years older than me. She didn't know about mom's heart attack either. Cindy's had some bad health problems the last few years herself. She can't drive so I'll see about picking her up and taking her to the hospital with me.
Talked with her for 4 hours on the phone. She called and was in tears because she hadn't seen me since surgery and felt bad because she hadn't sent me a card. She told me W told her that we were Ding and that she was seeing someone. I told her his name and she confirmed it was a co-worker. W told her that I wouldn't fight for her. My aunt said she didn't want to see that side of me, she saw it once and said it really scared her, she thought I was going to kill the guy.
She said W complained that I wasn't assertive with W. Maybe I should try that approach. She told me that she has a few friends and customers(she owns a beauty salon) that think I'm hot. I go there for haircuts.
W hasn't been going anyplace on the days she is off, D24's BF is out of work and at their house all day, he says W doesn't go anywhere during the day. OM is a co-worker, don't know if she is chasing him. I think the times she wanted to quit her job they had a falling out. Don't know if W thinks if she is D'd that he will leave his W for her or if he promised to leave his W if she D'd me. Oh well it is what it is.
I'll pickup aunt and take her to hospital tomorrow, she can't drive any more because of her health problems.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26
