You know what, it's funny you ask that cuz I'm not worried about Iraq. It is what it is. What I want to do this time is make the lines of communications better this time around. If it doesn't happen, maybe this will be the final deal breaker for me to let my heart know it's time to move forward. But I'm optimistic. She takes steps forward I just need to make her feel comfortable enough to not go backwards anymore. Maybe if she really is going to IC it will be enough for her to want to move forward with me.