When the time is right, which I think means when I am prepared to deal with any or the responses I can imagine (though probably not the actual one), I think that's about how I'll approach it. I think that might give her the chance to choose how she wants to handle it, which might be seen as less controlling by her. (She sees me as controlling, I don't think I really agree, but my opinion isn't really the one that counts, there.)
I really appreciate the support I get here. It completely baffles me that by typing a few kind, supportive words, I seem to be 'virtually attractive' to so many very kind people, especially you women. I know it isn't the real world, but it is an ego boost for someone in my position. It does make me thing maybe I am not the person W is convinced I am, you know?
I was just reading your thread....I was going to post, but didn't have a clue what to say. But, I usually think of something, so I'll be back!
Thanks again, Ingid!
((((Ingrid)))) You can't come in here and not get hug!
