yep, mark's thought crossed my mind as well.


lwb, talk to your h. talk to him. you put the message there. don't ignore it...its not snooping, its a NORMAL thing to ask him about it.

make sure to think about what you really want out of the conversation first. do you really think you couldn't go as a family right now? what would your response be if he said, okay, he wants to take the girls on his own then?

just be prepared. but honestly I'd ask.


M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher