lwb, talk to your h. talk to him. you put the message there. don't ignore it...its not snooping, its a NORMAL thing to ask him about it.
make sure to think about what you really want out of the conversation first. do you really think you couldn't go as a family right now? what would your response be if he said, okay, he wants to take the girls on his own then?
just be prepared. but honestly I'd ask.
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