I know what you are trying to politely say Mark. And I don't think he would invite OW down there. Its his aunt's condo, he wouldn't have the nerve....then again maybe he would. But I would guarantee that his entire family would know I wasn't with him if that happened. And NO WAY would I allow him and OW to take all the kids down there.

I had to give him the message so its out there. He didn't say anything about it, just smiled.

I have no idea what to do. The girls would absolutely FLIP to go (and so would I, I was very sick last year when we went, I missed a lot). But I don't want to go with him in our state now. I surely don't want a nightly call from OW to tell him goodnight....I would throw him off the Dumbo ride...

What do I do?