That's a great sign Olive. Good for you!!! Weirdly, I still feel that way even though we're reconciled. My husband called me tonight and told me he's meeting some friends for beer after work. Prior to everything, I would have been worried and upset as the time got later, but now I don't have any feelings about it. In fact, I wouldn't mind if he stayed out later so I could go join my girlfriends, chat, and watch them oogle guys. Life is fun!

Now, the idea of you, Olive, being weak prey.... no.... I've seen weak prey here and you aren't it. I just see it as you practicing those attractive qualities that are going to make every man want to be around you and eventually cause H to think, "Boy was I stupid to let that woman go!" Keep it up lovely one!!!!


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.